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Navigating New Roads

A lot has happened since my last update in May and much of it has pointed me down new roads — some I anticipated and was ready to travel and others I wasn’t sure I’d find myself arriving at.

I took my son in for his final round of evaluation in June and the appointment concluded with him receiving his autism diagnosis. He aligns with what most of us know as Asperger syndrome and is considered as higher functioning, but since they did away with Aspergers as a separate diagnosis back in 2013, they now just consider it under the umbrella of the autism spectrum. It can be confusing to try and explain him to people because he seems so “typical” and much of my efforts in explaining tend to fall short, but then I remember I don’t really have to explain him to anyone anyway. He’s an amazing, intelligent, quirky little guy and the only thing that truly changed is an entry on his medical chart. He is who he has always been, and he’s always been perfect to us. Still, this marked a significant milestone in our journey with him, one that we had been waiting to find out about definitively for almost three years.

Having a background in autism and special education, I am fortunate to have the skills, tools, and knowledge of available resources to help our family move forward confidently. My prior experience is actually where my suspicions stemmed from — I saw certain behaviors and was able to follow the breadcrumbs they left behind. Now that we have this confirmation, we’ll be able to coordinate with necessary doctors, enroll him in specialized therapies, and make sure his educational needs are met accordingly and appropriately. In the midst of the chaos, I have found peace in knowing what to do and what to expect. For the most part, at least.

With that peace, I have been able to put more focus on my business launch and though I will be rolling the full extent of it out slowly, I am pleased to announce that as of today, I am officially accepting proofreading clients.

I will still be working to accommodate the new additions to my family’s schedule and want to ensure each piece of this venture is presented authentically, and successfully at that, so I will be starting small with the launch of my proofreading services initially. My goal with this is to provide indie authors with affordable, quality proofing so that their final manuscript is polished prior to publishing. Please note, however, that I am open to providing services to all authors regardless of how they plan to publish.

As of right now, I will be taking email proposals for projects and will be pricing based on pages instead of by the hour. If you wish to email a proposal, please do so at ardirect@armorrison.com with the following information:

  • manuscript length (in formatted pages)
  • timeframe for completion
  • pricing proposal
  • a little about yourself, if you don’t mind sharing

If you are an indie author with pricing/financial concerns, please know that I am open to discussing options in order to get your piece ready for the public and that anything we discuss is confidential. I am passionate about not only the publication of quality content but also making sure that those who create it are able to afford quality services. Publishing is an expensive undertaking as an independent author, and I wish to lighten that burden to ensure you put your best work forward.

Though my system is considerably bare bones yet and still in development, I wanted to get going on this now instead of waiting for things to be “just right” because I’d be waiting forever in that case. I’m working on getting reduced-pricing application forms up and available for my indie authors and will have a more formal client agreement ready soon as well. Everything is still under construction really, but that’s okay! We’ll just consider it a head start. 😉

I am still planning to launch consulting and coaching services in the near future as well but wanted to take some time to settle into our new normal before adding too much more to my family’s plate. With my husband working full-time outside of the home, one kiddo heading into middle school, and one who needs a bit more of me than anyone else, I don’t want to overwhelm them with too much change, too fast. It’ll get there, though, and it will be exciting when the time comes!

If you’ve read this far, I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for sticking with me through all of my ups and downs as I’ve tried to figure out which roads I’m destined to travel in this crazy, beautiful life. It has been an honor to have so many of you with me along the way and I am excited to finally see where some of these roads are going.

Finally, I want to add that this will probably be one of the only times I’ll publicly discuss my son’s diagnosis as I want to respect his privacy as much as possible. You will still see me championing certain causes and voicing support for the autism community as a whole, but I don’t want to share anything too personal. That will be for him to decide as he gets older and it would be wrong of me to choose that for him.

Thank you again, and I hope to hear from some of you soon!

 

Updated: 9/2/2018

 

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Putting On A Few New Hats

Hey, guys! It’s been a hot minute since I’ve updated — well, more like a hot year almost. Just wanted to share this bit of news!

So, some of you know – though most of you don’t – that I am on the cusp of launching a business that I have been working on for a while now. I wasn’t quite sure what it really looked like until recently, and it wasn’t until I stopped searching for the answer that it smacked me right in the face.

In the coming weeks, I will be launching a creative consulting business where I help others who, like me, are wanting to build their own dreams instead of slaving away to build someone else’s. My focus will be on individuals in the creative space who seek non-traditional paths but need someone to help them build solid platforms in all areas of life so that their goals are attainable. This isn’t just about pursuing a dream career – it’s about changing your entire life and the way you approach every single day.

I don’t know about any of you, but I cannot stand the idea of wasting day after day in mediocrity, only fantasizing about chasing my dreams but never actually taking any step in the right direction toward them. And if there’s one thing I’ve come to realize in the last three years that I’ve been learning and growing in this area, it’s that inaction is the enemy of every single thing you could ever want to have or accomplish in life.

If you’re not adapting – growing – evolving – what are you doing?

And that’s where I want to help. I want to help people adapt to the changes needed to pursue those big ideas they think about but never take action on. I want to help people grow in ways they never knew were possible. I want to help people evolve into their next level self and continue to do so day after day, year after year.

This is just a snippet of what’s to come. Keep an eye out for more updates over the next few weeks with additional information on what exactly I will be offering once I am set to launch this new endeavor! I plan to include affordable proofreading for indie authors along with my consulting and coaching as well, so tell all your indie author friends! 😉

And for those who may be wondering, the answer is yes, I am still hard at work on Dreamweaver and I am very happy with how it’s coming together. I am also working on a proposal for a non-fiction piece that ties into my new business and I have two short stories that are on the back-burner but may turn up in the blog at some point in the near future just for fun reads.

Again, keep your eyes peeled, and I’ll have more to share soon!

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Unrealistic Goals and Rookie Mistakes

If you’ve been following my journey toward becoming a published author, you’ve probably noticed that my anticipated release for Dreamweaver didn’t quite happen and it wasn’t until I was staring down this impending deadline I had created that I realized I’d made a huge rookie mistake:

I set an anticipated publication time frame without understanding how long it’d actually take to research, outline, write, and polish my first novel.

The biggest eye-opener for me occurred when Spring came, and went, and I still wasn’t done writing my first draft. Like, not even remotely close. I’ve never written a book of any kind before, so everything I’ve done since ‘Day 1’ has been a part of my learning experience. How could I have known how long I’d need? I didn’t. And I set myself up for failure in that aspect because there is so much that goes into writing a novel. You don’t just sit and start with page one and write all the way to the end. It’s a labor of love, frustration, patience, and more coffee than any human should probably consume, and it is a chaotic, disorganized, daunting, and exhausting mess to navigate.

And then there was the extra stuff like learning my own unique style of organization, getting over how uncomfortable it feels to digitize everything for the sake of my poor hand, figuring out which program I’d use to compile my story in, and so much more. And on top of the learning curve I was already facing, I had to let an authentic, engaging story flow from a brain that was already rattled by other overwhelming details.

You know that dance of two steps forward and ten steps back? Yeah, that’s sort of what writing a novel is like. But in 20-inch stilettos…on ice.

This book requires more of me than I’ve ever given any other project and it’s terrifying to be under that kind of stress and pressure and know that you’re doing it to yourself. And then there’s the fact that being at home, especially with my kids, makes it so easy to just get lost in the day-to-day and let discipline slide. Sadly, the bank won’t do the same for my car loans…

Anyway, my takeaway from this has been pretty positive despite not hitting my original goal. I’ve come to understand what this process will actually entail and I have a great deal of newfound respect for those who have taken on this behemoth of a task and slayed it.

Coincidentally enough, I was scrolling through Facebook earlier and found an article titled, “10 Things Every Writer Should Do Before They Start Their First Book” and decided to give it a look since it aligned so perfectly with this post. It had some great information, but I found the first item to be especially important: manage your own expectations.

In it, the author stated, “Writing is a job, it’s a commitment. It involves long hours and painful moments, times where you feel as though you don’t know what you are doing, where you don’t feel like writing at all. You need to be realistic about what writing a book takes out of you – but then do it anyway because it’s still worth it in the end!”

And I think that will be what I leave you all with. Writing is a passion-driven and rewarding job, but it is still a job — one that requires fierce commitment and will probably provide you with some form of discomfort in one way or another.

But then you do it anyway because it’s worth it in the end.

 

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Monday Mantra

I stumbled upon a quote yesterday and it really resonated with me and my current writing headspace:

“I don_t wait for moods. You accomplish nothing if you do that. Your mind must know it has got to get down to work.”

There is so much truth packed into this small collection of sentences. ❤

I am learning to stop waiting for the “right” mood or “right” time because I get far more accomplished when I just put butt to chair and pen to paper.

So, in an incredibly short post, I share with you my mantra for today: get down to work.

More to come tomorrow — stay tuned.

 

 

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Why I’m Letting Balance Take a Back Seat

I’m starting to really dislike the word balance. Anytime I log onto social media or turn on the TV, I’m slammed with this message of maintaining steadiness within my life in all areas.

Whether it’s work/life, work/family, or just an overall sense of balance, I feel like we are being inundated with the urge to find and sustain equilibrium in order to achieve stability and happiness in our lives. And it’s starting to place a typically positive idea in the shadow of a concept we are told to avoid: perfection.

I’m not saying they are synonymous, but this strive for balance I see so frequently is beginning to remind me of the painful strive for perfection that robs so many people of the joy and contentment they are working so hard to attain.

What happens when we aim for perfection and fall short? Many people crumble under the idea that they are failing, or push themselves harder at greater personal cost to try and avoid said failure.

So what happens, then, when we also aim for balance? Better question — what happens when we aim for balance, maybe not 100%, but close, and then spend our days battling to hit this goal? Do we feel better? Like we are settling for a more realistic version of perfection? Or are we just placing more stress on ourselves when that balance is thrown off? I know that when any one area in my life loses balance, it’s like a domino effect: the rest goes catawampus with it. And then chaos ensues…

The only saving grace is that balance for me looks different than balance does for you, or Jim, Jon, or Sally, but if we are trying to get to a comfortable sense of the word, we surely aren’t half-assing it, right? We are still working toward a goal and we know what the outcome needs to look like in order to feel accomplished.

I know that if I want balance, there is a mile-long list of tasks I need to complete each and every day and things that need to be a certain way (aka, my way). But as a natural perfectionist who doubles equally as a hardcore procrastinator, I can get pretty wound up when I have a lot to do and can’t get it all done. I’ve learned to show myself compassion and to be proud of what I can get done while saving the rest for the next day if need be, but I still aim high. And that can make balance just as nerve-racking for me as aiming for perfection would be.

Granted, balance does mean acknowledging the ebbs and flows and understanding that when one side of the scale lists, it’s possible to work back to a more even level. I just don’t like feeling like I have to keep up balance for appearance’s sake.

My life is a shit-show right now and I will admit that openly. Perhaps that’s why I’m a bit cynical about such an innocent word that is supposed to have a positive connotation. Do I want balance back? Of course. But I also know why I don’t have it and that it will take a long time to get there again given my current circumstances. The real “balance” for me right now is understanding that the scale will even out eventually, even if it’s dragging its ass on the ground presently.

I guess the moral of my rant here is to remind anyone who is struggling to meet some personal or force-fed standard that it’s okay to stumble — to have an off day, week, or entire season of life — but don’t for a second buy into some limiting idea that constant balance is what is going to give you a great life or that you’re failing if you don’t have balance in your life at all times, or even most of the time.

If you’re unhappy with how things are going or with what you are doing, change it. You have that power. But don’t give an outside source, whether it’s another person or society in general, the power to tell you how to do things. Don’t let them tell you that if you don’t have balance that you’re doing something wrong. We don’t have to be perfect or balanced to be living well or achieving great things.

Besides, what’s life without a little whimsy, eh? 😉

What do you think? Is “balance” starting to feel like the new “perfect?” Or is it just me…? Leave a comment below — I’d love to hear your thoughts.

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Degree or No Degree…That is the Question

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A college degree is often seen as a beneficial and, depending on your career path, necessary requirement to have in your professional arsenal. And while you can do many jobs without this level of higher education, the experience it provides can still be incredibly advantageous.

That said, I want to touch on a debate I have seen going around the interwebs lately, especially in some of my writing groups.

Does an author need a degree or formal background in writing to be successful?

Short answer: No, they do not.

But, and I say this as a possibly biased English major, it does help to have that extra bit of knowledge under your belt. While I am still a year out from holding my degree in my hands, I have already seen the results of my education and how it has transformed my work. I have studied a wide range of topics within the realm of English and have learned a great deal on the origins and background of my craft that has influenced how I perceive my career choice and goals as I move forward.

I have also honed my critical thinking skills, sharpened my writing, gained knowledge from classmates that has been invaluable, and found new interests within the subject along the way. I’ve also taken classes centered around technology that have helped me as far as my author platform and web-based interaction goes, and my current classes are focusing on writing for professional publication and web authoring, which are again, incredibly helpful.

So why would I say writers don’t need a degree? Well, because you don’t NEED a degree to write. The knowledge you gain through education helps, but setting out to write without a writing-based degree doesn’t make you any less of a writer. Some authors choose to teach themselves what they need to know, and rely on their passion for writing to lead them the rest of the way.

As long as you have the drive and ambition to succeed as an author, that’s really all you need. If you choose the college route, that’s great, and while it might get you where you want to be faster by having that information, it doesn’t mean that you won’t be successful if you don’t have a specific degree that is related to writing.

The key is to simply persevere and continually push and improve. If you are doing that, you’re doing great, and a degree doesn’t supply you with that inherent desire. If you want to write, write. Don’t let anyone tell you that you must meet some sort of requirement in order to pen your story. As long as you are determined and plan to put in the work, that’s what matters. An education helps, but it’s not the be-all-end-all in the world of writing.

What do you think? Is a degree necessary, or just a bonus to have in your professional profile?

I’d love to hear your thoughts!

 

 

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Literary Agents

I’ve seen a lot of discussion in my online writing groups regarding literary agents lately. People have been asking what exactly they do, how to find them, and whether they’re even necessary to have, and it really struck me when I realized how many authors were sort of in the dark on this topic.

I’ll admit, I didn’t always understand their full significance myself, but after perusing the Internet and interacting in groups with those who had all the good information on agents, I feel much better about my understanding of their imperative role in an author’s publishing journey.

So exactly does an agent do? Well, their biggest role is to work as a liaison between an author and a publishing house. Most medium to large scale publishing houses will refuse manuscripts that are sent by the actual author – they typically want only works that are sent by agents. If you submit a query to an agent and they agree to take you on as a client, their job is to find a publishing house that fits your manuscript. Different publishers look for different types of submissions, and agents have the insider knowledge that will help them put your work in the right hands.

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Now, if we’ve gotten this far and you’re wondering what a query letter is, don’t fret. It is essentially a letter that explains your story in order to capture the attention of the agent. It is a necessary component to acquiring an agent and is an important skill to hone if you wish to take the traditional publishing route. A well composed query letter also makes you stand out professionally and can give a great first impression with a kick of additional credibility. If an agent can see that you are serious and able to construct a well thought out letter, they will have more faith in you and your manuscript, provided the story stands out to them as well.

More information on drafting a killer query letter can be found at http://nybookeditors.com/2015/12/how-to-write-a-darn-good-query-letter/.

Of course, it is important to find an agent you’d like to submit to, or even a few of them, before you can get much further in the process. While there are many routes to take and plenty of agent directories online, you’ll want to make sure that the agents you’re looking into are legit, and a quick search of the Association of Author Representatives can help as well as taking a look at client lists.

Two directories I recommend include:

By now, you can probably gather that finding an agent to represent you is necessary if you plan to take the traditional publishing route. If you self-publish, it isn’t as necessary, and if you are planning to submit to smaller, regional publishing houses, they aren’t as much of a requirement either. But a trusted agent can definitely guide you in the right direction if you plan to submit to larger publishers.

Here are a few more links with great information on literary agents:

http://www.dailywritingtips.com/how-to-find-a-literary-agent/

http://www.independentpublisher.com/article.php?page=1586

http://ingridsundberg.com/2010/04/15/the-dos-and-donts-of-submitting-to-a-literary-agent/

I hope you found this helpful, and if you have anything add, whether it’s advice, recommendations, or additional information, please leave a comment! I only scratched the surface here and would love more feedback from those who have gone through the process. 🙂

 

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My Top 10 Tips for an Author Platform

Though I’m still building my author platform and my experience pales in comparison to most, I have learned a lot in the last year that I have been able to pass on to fellow authors and those who are hoping to set up their own site.

I actually didn’t realize how much I really knew until I started helping others, and it surprised me a little. It has all begun to feel so second nature, so I never gave it much thought on the actual amount of information and skills I had acquired.

That said, I thought it would be fun to give you guys a list of tips that I think are important, or I have found incredibly helpful throughout my journey. Some of these are pretty simple, but I think they serve as a good set of reminders of how to get started, or how to continue to build on what you have.

1) Domain. This is numero uno, most important. If you want an author platform, you need to scoop up a domain as soon as possible. There are people who will buy domains and then try to mark up the price, and that is a battle you don’t want to engage in. I struggled when I was deciding whether to use my full, legal name or a pen name, but when the domain with my full name was already taken, I realized I had to go with the latter. It wasn’t too bad, though, and since there is already an author of children’s books who shares my same legal name, I knew a pen name was the best choice for the sake of differentiation. That and the gal in Scotland who owns my original domain preference never emailed me back. 😛

You’ll also want to snag up Twitter and Facebook (and/or other social media accounts if you use those, too) handles and if you can’t use your name, make sure they are the same across social media pages or similar. Mine are all different, but they are similar and I make sure my cover and profile images are the same to pull it together.

2) Search Engine Optimization, better known in the tech world as SEO, is something that is important to put on your radar. SEO affects the visibility of a website in a search engine’s results and is a tool that will help to get more people on your page. I haven’t found it to be absolutely necessary at this early point in my journey, but I figure once I hit a certain number of followers (1000 or so) and Dreamweaver is finally published, I will delve more into learning about SEO.

3) Facebook Groups! These have been wonderful resources for me and I attribute a lot of my success to the information and advice I have received by being a member. I currently follow Jeff Goins and his group called Art of Work, Kate McKibbin in her Secret Blogger’s Society group, and I’m also a part of Where Authors Begin and Writers Unite. There are tons of groups to join and they have invaluable information from their creators and members. Not to mention the amazing networking! I have made a lot of great contacts that I wouldn’t have made if not for joining these groups.

4) I also think it is incredibly helpful to find at least three successful blogs in your same niche to follow. Not only will you find great ideas, techniques, and tools to implement on your own site, but the networking potential also increases. You may even end up in a position to guest post or be included in round-ups, which are great ways to get your name out there further. Mentor blogs are an invaluable resource.

5) PICTURES. This should probably be higher in the list because I think the use of images and graphics is so important. Most of what a mobile/web user reads is only in small snippets that are easy to skim, so attention-grabbing, sleek, and memorable graphics help draw the reader in and keep their attention. Canva is a great resource for a variety of graphics and images, both free and paid, and I use it on a daily basis.
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6) Another aspect of an author platform that I believe is key is a blog page. This is where your readers and potential audience learn more about you not only as an author, but as a relatable human being. Sharing your interests, your writing process, things you feel passionately about, and whatever your heart desires to share helps them to connect with you. It also hones your writing skills, contributes to your portfolio, and it can be a valuable way to help you find and develop your voice. I know blogging has done all of these for me!

7) Interacting with your followers is important as well. I try to make it a point to interact with each and every person who reaches out to me so that they know I see and appreciate them. My numbers are still such that I can do this, but even if I gained another two thousand followers, I’d still carve out time to comment and tweet to the people who reach out to me. I obviously couldn’t get to them all, but I’d make a dent. 😉 I know I smile when I get feedback from those I’ve reached out to, and I always want my followers to know how grateful I am to have them in my corner.

8) Investment. Again, this should probably be closer to the top, especially since this is something I have sadly seen a lot of people forget to do. I know that it’s hard to invest money into something you might not be seeing a return on, but if you take your work seriously enough to create an author platform for it, you need to be willing to spend the time and the money to spruce it up. I pay yearly for my domain and though I find great free resources, I do spend here and there when I can to improve my site. And if you’re in it to make a living, it will pay for itself in the long run.

9) Twitter hashtags seem like a funny thing to have on the list, right? I don’t think so, and here’s why. In the last two months, I have seen my list grow from 70 or so followers to 270 just by attaching hashtags like #writerslife and #amwriting to my tweets along with some of the trending ones. These work as searchable tools on Twitter, and if someone searches the hashtag you used, there’s a chance they’ll see your tweet. And if they are intrigued by you, they just might follow you. Boom – networking! I have been followed by other authors, agents, actors, producers, directors, publishing houses, and so many others and all of this new interaction is due, in part, to utilizing hashtags to increase my reach.

10) Finally, and I can’t stress this enough, return the love. I’m not just talking about interacting with your followers when they comment on your posts or social media, but engaging with fellow authors, bloggers, and other individuals or organizations within your niche. I have a small group of loyal bloggers and authors who constantly “like” my posts, “favorite” my tweets, and engage with me on my site and connected pages. So, I try to do the same for them! This is how little tribes are built, and it just strengthens that connection and networking amongst your fellow peers.

So, there it is, friends. Ten of my top to-do’s and pieces of advice for setting up, establishing, or running an author platform. I hope you’ve found it helpful!

Please feel free to leave any extra tips you feel are important in the comments! 🙂

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Analysis Paralysis

Guys.

My characters aren’t talking to me…

I’ve hit a creative wall with Dreamweaver. The pivot point I experienced with my plot a few weeks ago, which was awesome when it occurred, completely paralyzed my progress.

I started to second guess myself and wasn’t feeling confident at all. I was wildly unsure of where the story was going and I was so worried that I had gone in the wrong direction…

…and they stopped talking.

…which means no progress, and my nerves are shot.

Throughout the process, I’ve felt like I was actually writing what could be two separate stories, and I think this plays into my concern quite a bit.

Another part of me, though, that little voice that says, “Hey, stop questioning things and just write!” has been pushing me to believe in the story, move forward, and see what happens.

I’m in this horrible cycle of optimism, panic, and doubt, and it stinks!

What if I push forward and it seems forced?

Do I write in the other direction instead and see if it helps?

Do I lay it all out and organize what I have to better see the places where these “two” stories are running into one another?

Or do I just push down all of these negative connotations and accept that at some point, these seemingly separate pieces will come together?

I think a large part of this is also my hesitation to make progress. I want to sit down and write, but I get so caught up in wanting to make sure I’m doing it “right” and it just increases the uncertainty. I want this story to be written so perfectly that I get in my own way. I would hate to write it, publish it, and think, “Damn, I should have done _______ differently.”

Like I said, it’s a horrible cycle — one I’m sure many other writers can understand.

And I think all of these conflicting feelings within me are what has caused my characters to fall silent. I used to walk around with them chatting up a storm in my head, creating scenes, and words would flow across the page when I sat down to type them out.

Now, it’s crickets.

I did find a helpful post on a blog called Out Loud titled What to Do When Your Characters Stop Talking and loved what the author had to say. I fit into her “None of the Above” category which is, you guessed it, self-doubt.

I suppose I have found the answer to my own problem…

I just need to believe in what I’m doing, and trust the process.

Has this happened to you before? What did you do? What would you do? I’d love some feedback, and maybe to know I’m not alone.